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ABOUT

ME

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Welcome to The Gentle Fatherhood

So again, welcome! Thank you so much for taken the time to read this and jumping onto this website! I am so grateful for your presence and allowing yourself to delve into this information.

I will make this clear and concise as possible. My journey and alignment does not involve me describing myself for 3 sentences then try and sell you this program and if you're the first 10 people to do so you get 20% off. No, just no. If we are aligned to work together, then amazing! But, this isn't about selling as much as possible. It is about you and I embracing each others paths and unlock your potential as a man and becoming that leader. That guide. That inspiration. 


I know what it's like to be at rock bottom. I am the father to two beautiful children. Ahlia and Luca. And before Ahlia was born nearly 3 years ago, that should've been the best time of my life right. Sooo not the case. Around 6 months before Ahlia was born, I was beating myself up. Thinking I couldn't be a father. I was not able to father my children. I started to conceptualise me being a terrible father and not being able to do it. After these consistent negative thoughts and mindset, the anxiety attacks started to kick in. I called an ambulance 3 seperate time thinking I was having a heart attack. Not knowing anything about mental health and I guess I was naive and didn't want to know. Straight to the GP I went and got prescribed heavy doses of anti depressants. Three days on these was the worst I have ever experienced. Couldn't sleep or eat, consistent racing heart and mind and FULLY negative in my own thoughts. In the middle of the third night, I had enough. Straight to the kitchen to get a quick escape to stop the pain. Thankfully, I had one thought. "STOP, don't do this". 

I battled with this for two years following, keeping to myself thinking no one would want to listen. Then, the turning point. Meeting my coach, Jacob. He saved my life. Guiding me to a path of happiness. And yeah, there is still plenty of work to do. But, I will do the work. 

My point is this. I know I can help so many men because I have gone through it. I know what it feels like. This isn't like a psychiatrist where you only have 45 mins every 3 weeks to talk. I am here every single day for you. 

If any of this has resonated with you and think you're in the same spot, message me. Do not let your ego keep holding you back from making the biggest changes of your life.

If you want to reconnect with yourself through a range of holistic strategies and methods, message me.

If you want to reconnect with your children, message me.

Brother, let's do this.

Much love ✌🏻